My wife and I were discussing a few weeks ago regarding soul mates and in reality I don’t actually believe it this theory. I believe that people make their own destiny and its based on their decisions and how they will work on it to happen. I don’t believe that its destiny's fault why two person meet, unless the person's name that introduce them to each other is Destiny. (its beri beri dipikolt to inglish here, its bloody nose ebriwer!)
My wife really believes in this shenanigan (i still don’t see any logical explanation for it) As much as I don’t believe in stars, signs and horoscopes... Ok she's my wife and I dearly love her so I won't argue, I’ll just respect her belief thus I need to have an open mind regarding this concept. I researched a bit regarding 'soulmate' and its not difficult to find this topic on the net, but most of them are really girly stuff and the only thing that caught my attention about it is written by old philosophers. As I learned it was Aristophanes, a well-known comic satirist, who invented this concept or theory he said that before there were 3 sexes (ayos me bading na pala talaga dati pa nung panahon ni Zeus) a man, a woman and an androgynous Primeval man, he said that Androgynous had four hands and four feet, one head with two faces, four ears, two privy members (genitals) and was round, with his back and sides forming a circle.
The Androgynous beings were very strong, ambitious and proud. They tried to scale Mount Olympus and attacked the Gods. As punishment, Zeus split them into two to weaken them and increase their numbers so they would be more profitable for the gods, because more people would pay homage to them.
After the division, continued Aristophanes, the two parts of man, each desiring its other half, came together, throwing their arms about one another, longing to grow into one... Each of us when separated, having one side only like a flat fish, is always looking for its other half. ( o hindi ba isang malaking kagaguhan yung concept noon pa man!? Ha!)
According to one of the articles that I read,” Soulmate is your perfect partner, one whom you feel a deeper connection to than anyone else. You can also call it true love. Some people have different beliefs about a soulmate. Some people believe that a soulmate is a lover from a previous life. Others think that a soulmate is a piece of your soul that was placed within another person. That is why you spend your life looking for the other half. Whatever you happen to believe, a soulmate is more than just simple physical attraction. It goes deep and can make you more complete than any crush or infatuation.”
So if that’s the case then it’s just a simple attraction between two people amplified by situation and preference. If it’s the case of liking the same thing, thinking the same thing, and doing almost the same thing, then in truthful I haven’t found that soulmate yet…. Liking what she likes and doing what she does, this would make me gay right?! Now if it’s the case of one person completing you and just simply can’t live without seeing her smile, hearing her talk, listening to her day to day activity over and over again without getting tired of it... Living with her without pretentions what so ever, and just laughing our asses off all the time… If that person is the one that never gets tired of being with me and having a heluva of patience to my kasungitan and pagkakalat… If that person is the one that really makes me happy every single day… Then even if I don’t believe in the concept of it I think I already got my soulmate and no one can take her away from me